1) Being around her makes you happy If you’re happier when you’re around her than when you’re not, you know she loves you for more than just a good time in bed. She actually cares about making sure both of your needs are met. And as long as her needs are also being met, then maybe there is something there worth pursuing! 2) She avoids conflict, even when it’s constructive It’s easier to avoid solving problems than face them head on, which is one of many reasons why wealthy women prefer not to handle their own finances. Since a wise woman fears neither opinions nor people, she will be able to see through your issues instead of settling them. If you have any qualms about what may come up during a conversation, take note of her reactions and behavior when trying to solve conflict. Is she fighting hard enough for what she wants? Or does she run from trouble when things get difficult? If she chooses to walk away from conflict, then there is likely something deeper going on beneath the surface. You should think long and hard before marrying someone who doesn’t want to work together as a team—especially when it comes to finances. 3) She cares more about status than substance When someone cares more about having a designer bag than about having an intellectually stimulating conversation, it’s hard to not wonder what her priorities are. Most of us care about both; when someone seems to focus on one to an extreme degree, consider why (and whether you want to be around that). She only wants to spend time with people who have money: The stereotypical gold digger is easy to spot—she has no friends and won’t leave your side for fear that another woman might try to steal you away from her. But there are subtler ways for a woman to show that she only wants to spend time with men who have money. She talks incessantly about how much fun she had at last night’s party but doesn’t mention any names, just vague descriptions like so-and-so was there and he has so much money! She asks you to buy her expensive gifts: If a woman truly loves you, she will be happy with whatever gifts you give her. And if she isn’t happy with something, then she’ll let you know right away so that you can get her something else instead. 4) She loves herself first Being a gold digger is about one thing: Self-love. She’s not interested in being with someone who isn’t going to take care of her and make her feel good about herself. It’s all about her, and she loves herself first, so why wouldn’t she want to be with someone who makes her feel good? She wants to spend time with you: If she has genuine feelings for you, then she will want to spend time with you because she likes spending time with you. If she doesn’t really like spending time with you but still wants to get married as soon as possible (or just move in together), then that means something else is at play here. You have no idea what her plans are: If you ask her what she wants to do with her life and what she sees happening in five years, there should be some type of answer coming back from her. And if there isn’t, that’s a big red flag. You have no idea where she lives: A woman who is in love with you will want to share everything with you—and that includes where she lives. 5) You pay all the bills If her credit card is still in her name and all of your expenses get charged to one account, there’s a good chance she’s not putting as much skin in the game as you. If she has no qualms about splitting everything right down the middle, however, and sees things like rent and utilities as a couple expense—while also paying her share to date—she’s on board and wants to be treated as such, including financially. You know who you’re dealing with once bills start coming in addressed to both of you. You pay for dates: If she insists on picking up dinner every time you go out, while never offering to pay for anything else, even when times are tough (see No. 2), watch out. She may very well think spending money is more fun than earning it—and maybe even worth prioritizing over a serious relationship. 6) Everything comes secondary to her looks She prioritizes her appearance and sees everything else, including you, as secondary to that. Someone who loves money isn’t likely to pay much attention to makeup, because she’s only one needs to be properly applied with just a little mascara and eyeliner to look fabulous. Would she care more about what other people think of her, or would she care more about what I think of her? If the latter, then she’s just looking for my money. In this case, be wary, because she may not have romantic feelings for you at all. If your suspicions are accurate and she is only interested in your money, read on for 6 ways to determine this for sure. to see if she’s in love with your money, go shopping with her, ask her to choose a department in the store, and then look for a sign of interest from her. But don’t say specific things such as meet me by the flowers — a clearer way would be meet me at the store. 7) She expects expensive gifts You shouldn’t get her high expectations and when they don’t meet your budget, her thoughts may stray to the fact that she is interested in you only for your money. No matter how much a man may earn, a lover should want to spend time with her significant other, as money does not equal love. Even so, it is important to occasionally treat her to dinner. make sure that you are allowed to do this. She would say things like I never thought I could feel like this This might seem like she’s professing her undying love for you, but she might simply be telling you what she thinks you want to hear in order to receive even more benefits from you. Are you wondering if she’s in love with you or your money? Here are 7 telltale signs that can help you figure it out.
